Our Mission and Purpose
OutstandingLife's mission is to improve the quality of life of LGBTQ+ older adults by creating opportunities for connectedness through free online programming. We currently serve hundreds of LGBTQ+ seniors through our virtual senior center.
We provide a platform and a safe environment that fosters joy and independence. We are a diverse community committed to uplifting our members most impacted not only by homophobia and sexism but through systemic racism, transphobia, and income inequality. As life expectancy grows, we are living well into our 70s, 80s, and beyond. Longevity requires new ways of connecting and thinking about our wants and desires in what we need and want to do during our entire lives. We want to treat each person with dignity and respect and help people achieve their best life.
Despite increased physical longevity, social isolation and loneliness are leading causes of increased risk for emotional, cognitive, and physical health among older adults. According to psychologist Louise Hawkley, PhD, a senior research scientist at the research organization NORC at the University of Chicago, loneliness can wreak havoc on an individual's physical, mental and cognitive health. Hawkley points to evidence linking perceived social isolation with adverse health consequences including depression, poor sleep quality, impaired executive function, accelerated cognitive decline, poor cardiovascular function and impaired immunity at every stage of life. Older LGBTQ+ adults have been at an increased risk for deteriorating health. Many do not have children or family members who, traditionally, are the companions and caretakers of older adults.
THE NEED
In Sean Cahill, PhD's report for the Fenway Institute's "LGBT Aging 2025: Strategies for Achieving a Healthy and Thriving LGBT Older Adult Community in Massachusetts", he identifies key themes of social isolation and lack of connection from numerous listening sessions across Massachusetts that include social isolation and lack of connection, the need for:
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- social activities that create a sense of community and belonging
- targeted support groups and services
- hardware (computers, tablets), internet access, and technical assistance to isolated, low-income LGBTQ elders so that they can access virtual support groups and other services
Older LGBTQ adults have been at an increased risk for deteriorating health. Many do not have children or family members who, traditionally, are the companions and caretakers of older adults.
A MESSAGE FROM OUR EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR
Welcome to OutstandingLife, an online community designed for and by LGBTQ+ older adults and their allies. As the new Executive Director, I believe that creating intentional spaces for the LGBTQ+ community to connect, experience joy, and thrive contributes to a healthy life. My goal is to continue to build this platform side-by-side with the community I love most. You are an important part of helping OutstandingLife reach often-isolated LGBTQ+ older adults.
MEET OUR EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR

David Conner
David Aronstein
Craig Bailey
Alice Fisher
Mark Hatch
Stephenie Hou
Dale Mitchell
Julie Nowak
Susan Ramsey
Eric Roldan
Kathy Esparza
Cynthia Wilkerson
Would you like to Volunteer for a program? Please let us know!